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I don't think I can stand it


Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 6:04 pm

I don't think I can stand going to school tomorrow because our school does a HUGE thing for grandparents day and my grandparents all just resently died. It's very sensitive to me. Is there a way I cancer sick overnight?? Or within lie 3 hours!?? So I don't have to stand it.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday November 18 2010, 8:18 am:
I had a similar problem with my niece when my sister and her husband divorced and her husband left the country. My nieces school had a "Donuts' with Dad's Day" which upset my niece very much like you are upset. My sister spoke with school officials and they allowed me to step in and be her substitute dad for the day so she could participate.

Ask your mom or dad to talk with your teacher or school principal to see if another relative could substitute as a grandparent so you too can participate.

The school is promoting family values and the place grandparents have in a child's upbringing. They are not out to cause you hurt over the recent loss of your grandparents. I'm sure once they are made aware of your hurt they will find away for you to participate if that is what you want to do.

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lovealways1221 answered Wednesday November 17 2010, 6:34 pm:
:'( i'm so sorry!!

but you're not the only one. i'm sure there are at least a few other kids in your school with passed away grandparents. i know its hard but just hold your head high. the school thing isnt to embarass you or grandparents.. its to appreciate them. yes it is sad for you, but be proud knowing that your grandparents were amazing and be proud that you're their grandchild.

if you really dont want to go to school tomorrow, ask your parents and talk to them about it. i'm sure they will understand. its only 1 day. how hard can it be to catch up on a few notes or quizzes? just talk to your parents and tell them that you really dont want to be reminded of your loss and that you would feel much better if you were at home that day.

and no, you shouldn't wish for cancer.. one of my best friends got cancer this summer and we used to be really good friends and now i barely get to see him.. so you shouldn't wish for cancer. it is a horrible thing :(

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