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Girl in my school.
So I'll try to make this short!!! :/ I've been looking through your column and it seems you give honest advice which I like. (Just in case you were thinking why the fuck is she asking me this?)
Background:
There is this girl in my school and she's one grade below me. I tried to be good friends with her but she's the type of person who is extremely needy and cannot direct attention to her friends if she is involved romantically with people. ( I say people because she has no sense of loyalty.)
In this case she has been dedicating her life to (and I mean dedicating) this girl in her year and her boyfriend. (She's bisexual.) She recently entered this relationship with this boy she met over the summer and constantly skypes him through out the day but it really bothers me that she says she loves him and she's thinking of getting his name tattooed onto her (she has three other guys names already) when she constantly talks about this girl.
I find it disgusting when she acts like her boyfriend is air and she can't live without him but then at the same time she always flirts with and tries to please this girl. (By using her friends faults as a way to bring herself closer to the girl) She does this because this girl is rather secluded and cynical and so she tries to make everyone in life seem bad except her in order to get close to her! It's ridiculous! How immature and disrespectful can you get. She treats her friends like their secret weapons to make that girl (who is not bisexual or a lesbian) someone fall in love with her! What an idiotic!
ANYWAYS. I stopped talking to her and now she's been spreading rumors about me and being a real bitch just because I don't feel like being around her anymore. I went up to her in front of the girl she's been trying to impress and basically called her out on all the stuff she's been saying to that girl about me and others and they're not talking anymore but still she continues to spread rumors. I don't really know what to do. It's getting to the point where I might just beat the shit out of her to be honest and I know people say ignore it but I find her so revolting (mostly because I think she's weak for being so needy and stupid) that I can't control my urge to punch her face in. Now that the girl is ignoring her for lying to her, she's been walking around all day looking depressed and feeling sorry for herself. I have no patience with girls that say "I'm going to marry him someday after THREE MONTHS and get their boyfriends names tattooed on them WHILST being "in love" with another person. I find her childish, hypocritical and basically a waste of space. I hate her so much I think things like "Just think of all the oxygen it takes to keep her alive and the carbon dioxide she's creating." LOL. I mean I know I seem all like "Oh I'm so mature and she's so weak emotionally whereas I'm strong," but if you knew her you'd understand why I feel the way I do. It's literally like if she's been dating someone for a week and they break up, she'll cut herself and not come to school for weeks. I really need some advice on, well basically, on how not to beat the living shit out of her the next time I see her. I can't help but feel this anger swell up in my guts and I just want to kick her ass for all the pain she's inflicted on all her friends and me and the problems she creates daily. Please help :( <3
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hahaha, you would not believe how perfect your timing is.... I spent all last night lying awake in a bunk bed surrounded by Polish soldiers thinking about how good it would feel to stab a certain dude that's been pissing me off with a broken bottle of tabasco sauce. and you know what? it neither solved the problem of dealing with the douchebag, nor set me up for success for my guard shift... I was so tired I spent twenty minutes ranting about the dissolution of the post office.
Don't waste your time worrying about this bizarro bitch. no matter what you do, she's still going to talk shit, even if you shank her with a broken hot sauce bottle, she'll still try to spin her web of lies and make it look good for her. Feeding her ego is a bad idea. but if you do still feel like whaling the hell out of her- catch her as she goes into the latrine, when she sits down to do her thing, kick open the door, throw a towel over her head, and go to town. be sure to consider a few more things, first being to wear a mask, next- the second and third order of effects, or as I like to call them, "The Karmic Enchilada".... you will always reap what you sow, and I prefer to reap good shit.
good luck, and have fun
-Gunner
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