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Pregnant ?!
So I tried to take everybodys advice and STOP talking to this guy Gio because hes 19 and I'm 14 and blah blah blah, But heres my problem,
I did mention we had sex a couple times,
I'm NOT sure if we used a condom EVERYTIME,
And I'm waiting for my period but it hasn't came yet.
I'm kindaaa freaked!
What If I am pregnant!
I'm not sure what I should do!
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First off you are way too young to be having sex! and with a 19 yr old. Do you know that if your parents want to they can file charges for RAPE on this guy if they find out.
You are at a age that you should be enjoying things at school and having a boyfriend closer to your age and kissing, hugging is okay at this age.
You should go to the store (dollar store sells them) and get a pregnancy test. Take this test and see for sure before you panic.
There are places you can find like a plan parenthood that will help you and keep it private.
So search your area for help.
Now I hope you are close enough to your parents that you can sit down and discuss this with them and tell them you are sexually active, and that you need to get on the pill.
Believe me abortion is not a answer to your problem if you are pregnant because that will live with you the rest of your life. I should know! I was 16 and now I am 46 and I think about it all the time.
Good luck and try to be safe and trust in your family for help!
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It happens to the best of us,we get in over our heads and then we stress.First off dont stress,stressing about it can cause it to be late.Second How late is it,and has it been late befor.Im a girl and mine is very irregular,some times i have one twice a month and skip months at a time.If your not used to missing them then go get a home test.Have a friend who is over 18 whom you trust get it for you.They have dollar tests at the dollar store you have to ask the person at the register.They are very accurate but only use it if its been a few weeks since your missed period.I wish you the best of luck and hope your not,your young and you have a life to live.And please remember to be safe and use condoms not only because of pregnacy but there are tons of STD's out there you really never know.And sweetheart your friends are right watch out for them older guys I was like you once and I had to learn the hard way.They just want to use you as another mark on there wall.When you find a guy who will wait untill you are ready,you will know he truelly loves you and hes woth it.
Lots of love La La
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