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Boyfriend issues
My boyfriend and i have been going out since the beginning of the year and i have always known him to be a loving and caring man towards me. Even though we have overcome some deep problems which almost ended things quite a few times i never lost faith in him. I feel he loves me and i love him back but for some reason for a while now he has started acting differently towards me again. A few times he has said to me "everything is always about you you you.. you must really love yourself". Then he says i was just joking relax. And i'm not the kind of person like that at all, in fact i consider myself the total opposite. I am not a boastful person and i never brag about anything i have no idea why he started saying this to me out of the blue. He also started making excuses to leave early when we're together. I'm starting to think he's getting tired of me? He's also recieving more phone calls then usual, later saying that his employees are calling him when we are together. I dont know but its like his personalities are always changing on me. I feel like we are getting distant again. Also if this has anything to do with anything, i have also found his profile on a few dating and sex sites, i've went into it and saw that it had no incoming or outgoing msgs. I asked him about it and he said he just opened it out of stupidity but never used it. And these secret profiles of his were registered to a whole nother totally different email that i was unaware of, he opened it after our 3 months being together. I actually ended things with him because of this i just acted like i disappeared and he would write and call me all the time and showed up at my house a few but i showed no response. He later on deleted all of the profiles and the email address, and everyday for a month later he convinced me back to him. So we are back me having giving him another chance, and now a month later he is starting to act strange again. I mean i just came back from a date with him and we were talking online and i told him i loved him, and you know what he said, "you got me all worked up today". I dont think he even saw what i wrote. And yes thats another thing every date we go on he is always too touchy feely. I wonder sometimes where's the true bond in this relationship. Always wanting to sleep with me or get a little quickie, but then sometimes he stops himself saying your more important to me then that. Split personalities... i dont know what to say or think. Maybe thats why he says it always about me, because i dont give him what he wants all the time. Any advice will be most appreciated. Thank you very much in advance.
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Well I think you should talk to him about this. You don't want to be in a relationship where you don't feel loved. Ask him why he'd say the whole, "It's all about you" thing. Even if he says he's joking, ask him how it came up. Tell him that you don't feel like he loves you anymore and just talk to him about it. Don't let him use excuses though. You don't want to stay with a guy who doesn't care when you could be with someone who really does. So right now you should just talk to him and see where that goes. Good luck!
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Omg i thought i was the only one feeling like this... My bf, well my ex now use to do the same thing in the begining he use to tell me he loves me like 10 times a day then i noticed he stop and when i text him i loved him he would change the subject. Almost as if he didn`t get my text. Sooner or later i started putting the clues together and thats when i figured out he didnt really love me he was using me for my money... Try not to force your relationship to work. If its meant to be it will be. But if not nothing in the world can help it remain good. Sometimes being selfish is what you have to do think about your feelings and needs. At the end of the day the only thing that matters is your happiness.
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