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Please help me get rid of my pimples in a cheap way! I have very sensitive skin and I already use skin astringent and st.ives but the pimples wont go away! They mostly come up around my nose and it is SOOOOO embarressing! What should I do to make them leave and stay away??? (link)
May sound a little crazy but it works. If u rub your face with the green rubbing alcohol it will remove all the bacteria from your face. Also, be sure to change your sheets and your pillow case often. Don't forget to eat healthy.


how do i get over my ex boyfriend? i dont want to date him again, but i always think about him. i am fifteen and a girl. (link)
stoping yourself from talking to him won't help you get over him. The more you talk to him te more you'll notice that he annoys you. Also try getting a rebound bf.


20 female.

I'm not very experienced with sex. I've only done the missionary position, I'm fine with that for now haha but I just feel like I'm boring in bed. When I have sex, I don't know what to do. Usually the guy is on top and then I'll just run my hands through his hair or like run my fingertips lightly down his sides because they seem to like that and I moan, but that just comes out naturally. But you can only do these things for so long before it gets old! Half the time I'm like okay, can we be done I don't know what to do, this isn't exciting anymore. I feel like the guy gets bored too. I know it shouldn't be like that, but I feel like I'm not good being sexual even though I feel sexy? If that makes sense. Are there any tips on what I could do that would really turn him on? I don't know how people can have sex for a long time ..how do you keep it interesting? Anything will help! (link)
Ooh you should maybe try blind folding him and sprayind whipped cream on hin and then lick it off of him... Since he's blind folded you won't be as nerves being dominant... Im only 17 so i don't really know much more to do.


My boyfriend and i have been going out since the beginning of the year and i have always known him to be a loving and caring man towards me. Even though we have overcome some deep problems which almost ended things quite a few times i never lost faith in him. I feel he loves me and i love him back but for some reason for a while now he has started acting differently towards me again. A few times he has said to me "everything is always about you you you.. you must really love yourself". Then he says i was just joking relax. And i'm not the kind of person like that at all, in fact i consider myself the total opposite. I am not a boastful person and i never brag about anything i have no idea why he started saying this to me out of the blue. He also started making excuses to leave early when we're together. I'm starting to think he's getting tired of me? He's also recieving more phone calls then usual, later saying that his employees are calling him when we are together. I dont know but its like his personalities are always changing on me. I feel like we are getting distant again. Also if this has anything to do with anything, i have also found his profile on a few dating and sex sites, i've went into it and saw that it had no incoming or outgoing msgs. I asked him about it and he said he just opened it out of stupidity but never used it. And these secret profiles of his were registered to a whole nother totally different email that i was unaware of, he opened it after our 3 months being together. I actually ended things with him because of this i just acted like i disappeared and he would write and call me all the time and showed up at my house a few but i showed no response. He later on deleted all of the profiles and the email address, and everyday for a month later he convinced me back to him. So we are back me having giving him another chance, and now a month later he is starting to act strange again. I mean i just came back from a date with him and we were talking online and i told him i loved him, and you know what he said, "you got me all worked up today". I dont think he even saw what i wrote. And yes thats another thing every date we go on he is always too touchy feely. I wonder sometimes where's the true bond in this relationship. Always wanting to sleep with me or get a little quickie, but then sometimes he stops himself saying your more important to me then that. Split personalities... i dont know what to say or think. Maybe thats why he says it always about me, because i dont give him what he wants all the time. Any advice will be most appreciated. Thank you very much in advance. (link)
Omg i thought i was the only one feeling like this... My bf, well my ex now use to do the same thing in the begining he use to tell me he loves me like 10 times a day then i noticed he stop and when i text him i loved him he would change the subject. Almost as if he didn`t get my text. Sooner or later i started putting the clues together and thats when i figured out he didnt really love me he was using me for my money... Try not to force your relationship to work. If its meant to be it will be. But if not nothing in the world can help it remain good. Sometimes being selfish is what you have to do think about your feelings and needs. At the end of the day the only thing that matters is your happiness.


ok so my track phone says it has an error connecting but i already put my minutes in and it is a straight talk plan if that helps.they couldnt help me when i called though for some stupid reason so can anybody tell me whats wrong with it? (link)
you can call the customer service number and they will send you a new phone and an envolope so you can send your phone to them


I am 19 and have had sex with seven people. I regret my past, and I have never seen myself as a whore or a slut, but that is probably because I waited until I was 18 and a half to lose my virginity. And that is what makes it all worse, is that I had sex with so many people in such a short amount of time.

Would you consider this slutty? Or would you think I'm gross?

Again this is my past, I finally found a guy, and I am sticking to him for a long time. And even if he breaks my heart like the first one did, I know better now than to go on a sex rampage. (link)
Wow i thought i was the only one feeling this way, after my first time having sex at 16 and come later on me and my bf of 8months broke up. This made me depressed and i told myself forget my feelings and have fun. So i started having sex with like 5 different people. I dont consider you as a slut i just think you like having sex. So dont take it to the head. Its actually normal. Your young have fun.


20F.

I'm just wondering ..why do guys always try fingering a girl first? It's like they want to so badly but I don't see what they get out of it? Do they finger a girl because they think they'll get some in return? Does fingering a girl turn them on? I guess i'm just confused. And if a guy fingers you ..don't you feel sort of obligated to pleasure them back?? (link)
Basically they do this to get the girl wet and make her want to have sex as much as he do.


Alright. I'm fifteen (girl) and the guy I think I might like is seventeen, we'll call him Matt. Sooo Matt and one of my good gal friends haha used to have a thing about two years ago? And they kinda rekindled it a liiittle bit last year, but they never dated, or really hung out alone or kissed or anything. Well i've been talkign to Matt for like a few weeks or so and I think I kinda might like him :\ ! I don't know though. I haven't admitted this to any of my friends but two of them have been like "girl. you like him. admit it." even the one that used to have a thing with him is like "awwww you and Matt?!" but anyway, another one of my friends is a guy, he's a little older than me too but he's like one of BEST friends. He always kinda acts like my dad tho.. haha he's like "matts too old for you" "I don't like it". I know he just cares because guys in the past have tried to pressure me into doing "stuff" and I have and it's hurt and he just wants to protect me but Matt is like the nicest guy ever and would NEVER pressure me into stuff. I know this because I've been friends with him for like two years... My best friend saaaays he gets that but that he still thinks its werid. I just really want him to approve... but I also want to let myselfff admit I like him and I dont know why I can. Matt is sooo sweet and cute but he is going to be a senior and I guess that kind of is a pretty big age gap :\ he'll be eighteen in December and he's definitely gotten crap for liking me. I just don't know if this'll work... I need some advice!! (link)
You should try to work things out with him the only major problem would be when he gets ready to go to college, would you be able to handle a long distance relationship


ok so im a 17 year old female. I got my period bk in grade 9 and im going into grade 12. Well for the past couple of days my boobs are really sore. I dont know why, cause when i touch them they just feel really sore and the tissue around my boob is sore to touch to. It like right around my boob at the base where its hurts and the sides of my breasts. Any one know why this is? i think it could be cause they are growing, but im not sure. Any advice or answers would help me out alot. Does this mean i have cancer or something? im paranoid so tons of things are going through my mind. Thank you so much! Really appreicate it! (link)
if it was cancer you wouldnt feel it so dont stress about that




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