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Help with sex..
20 female.
I'm not very experienced with sex. I've only done the missionary position, I'm fine with that for now haha but I just feel like I'm boring in bed. When I have sex, I don't know what to do. Usually the guy is on top and then I'll just run my hands through his hair or like run my fingertips lightly down his sides because they seem to like that and I moan, but that just comes out naturally. But you can only do these things for so long before it gets old! Half the time I'm like okay, can we be done I don't know what to do, this isn't exciting anymore. I feel like the guy gets bored too. I know it shouldn't be like that, but I feel like I'm not good being sexual even though I feel sexy? If that makes sense. Are there any tips on what I could do that would really turn him on? I don't know how people can have sex for a long time ..how do you keep it interesting? Anything will help!
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Ooh you should maybe try blind folding him and sprayind whipped cream on hin and then lick it off of him... Since he's blind folded you won't be as nerves being dominant... Im only 17 so i don't really know much more to do.
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Let me start by saying I'm old enough to be your grand father and I have been married to the same women for almost 40 years. I believe in calling a spade a spade so you may find what i have written a little shocking coming from someone my age. My wife and I believe that it is best to tell it like it is and this is what I have tried to do for you and what we have done for our child.
One of the nice things about sex, besides the sex itself, is getting to know your partner, their likes and dislikes, what really turns them on and what they find as a turn off. Sexual positions can be a real turn on for both or a turn off for one or the other.
The same is true with different sex acts themselves. Men see women with three different and distinct orifices for sexual pleasure. The woman's mouth,vagina and anal orifice. Many women fearing pain or just plain disgust and flat say no to anal sex, although once they try it they come to love it.
As for sexual positions I did some research for you and found the following website: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). This website had several positions that you may find pleasurable along with descriptions of how to engage in them. I found this site by typing "Female sexual Positions" into a search engine. You could do the same thing for different sex acts you may want to explore with your partner, before trying with him, or even to learn more about your own body, such as how to find your "G" spot.
If you and your boyfriend are in a true long term loving relationship, learning about each others body is not only natural, it fun and a great way to explore each others sexuality, likes and dislikes.
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