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how do i turn him on
so me and my boyfriend have been having sex and i like im a lot and i want it to be good so what would be some great ways to turn him on i mean i don't want him to get bored or anything so like foreplay? people told me to just ask him what turns him on but that would be a bit awkward so any tips?
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Really, asking him is the best way to find out. Not, like, asking for a list. :-) You can, for example, try something in bed, and ask whether he likes it... and depending on his response, you could say, "What else do you like?" or "What else could I try?"
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The only way you'll truly know what the guy gets all hot and heavy about is to ask him. While we can say, "Well, most guys like x, y, and z..." your guy may not be like that at all. It's like saying, "All guys like younger women!" when, while it may seem that way majority of the time, it isn't true at all and some men are completely turned off by the idea of a younger woman.
Turn him on by asking about his turn ons. Be romantic and sensual about it. Get close and whisper in his ear. Get him wanting to talk about what he really desires. Use key words like: hot, desire, sexy. Share a few of your fantasies and desires with him to get him in the mood to open up if you have to.
Beyond that, we don't know the guy. Everything suggested could end up going sour and creating a problem. I don't think it'd be fun to get into the mood and you say something you probably think is a major turn on for guys and he just loses his erection. Guys are human and, thus, are not the same.
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