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What a guy...
so , I met this guy , and so we hanged out and everything , but then... he talked to me about sex... like he said he wanted to get me comfortable for a week and then have sex on the end of that following week and then I told him , oh well you know I can't have it that fast, so then he went on about like if I came over later he'd have my top off , and he another time said oh I shaved for you bla bla... and then I got sick of it and I told him and he was all insulted and he said well that's not why im talking to you , I really want you , and I want to love you. And he told me the way he was going to ask me out was by a song and dance? should I buy it? and he barely talks to me anymore and I Said I wanted to go to the movies hes like no not going to the movies till we have a stable relationship... now we barely talk...
what do I do leave it?
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No matter how cute or convincing this guy is or seems to be, it is obvious he is only after sex. Give it to him and you will most likely never see him again. You were smart enough to not do it as he requested and so I'm hoping you are smart enough to move on from him and look for someone who understands that the way to develop a stable relationship IS by going to movies, dinner etc., and getting to know a person, NOT by having sex. You deserve much better. Good luck and glad you were bright enough to not give in. Btw, how old r u?
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Well this guy is after only one thing, and that is SEX. He made it pretty clear. The stuff about saying that he doesn't want to go to the movies till a stable relationship is total bull shit. I am sorry, but in order to get to know someone, you would usually go on a date and get to know them better. This guy is a total tool. You can do better.
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So this guy won't go on a date with you until you have a stable relationship, which he's hoping to obtain by having sex with you immediately?
I don't even think you needed to ask our opinions. Just looking at how he's behaved, you know that he doesn't really respect you.
A decent guy would wait until you were comfortable and in a stable relationship before requesting, much less demanding sex. This guy has no respect for you, and wants to get in your pants ASAP with little to no effort. Don't let him. You can do better than that.
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