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ToughLove
I am a 57 year old graybeard biker who should know better BUT I have recently met a lady online that I feel a great empathy for. I know internet romance is just that, ,I also, know she is happily married. I have no wish to upset her life.I just want her to know that I wish I had someone like her in my life. Its too late for me now, for all sorts of reasons. I just want her to know how much joy she has brought into my life, and I would like to be on the fringes of her world for as long as she will let me. all it would take is a change in her husbands work schedule for her to have no need of me and our online communications. I think that is even more evidence of her good character. Is it wrong for me to let her know I love her, in my own sad little way? Should I take the chance of telling her how shes brightened my days, and I have no wish to complicate hers? Or do I skulk about in silence, like a stalker keeping my feelings to myself, and leave her unaware of the charms I feel she possesses?-- A knight in white satin
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Dear Mr. Knight,
You sound like a very intelligent man with keen insight as well as the heart of a poet. I'm certain the lady in question would be very flattered to know how you truly feel.
It sounds like you have a good healthy grasp on the reality vs. internet romance thang. Hopefully she does as well. If you are both on the same page, there's no reason why your cyber-relationship as it were could not continue. It's been said that "We decide which is right, and which is an illusion."
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