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self conscious about him seeing me naked
I love him to death, but yet I worry about him seeing me naked. Is this normal? He isn't superficial at all or anything like that but I still worry I compare myself to others all the time and I don't look like them :( Idk anymore
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Don't worry.
If he loves you he will not care about you not looking like others. In fact if he was he wouldn't have picked you he would have picked someone else.
Just enjoy his company.
Maybe start by letting him see you in skimpy clothing and then in underwear and so on.
Take care, hope this helps.
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This is natural. He's probably thinking the same thing about his body and your reaction to it. After all, people are completely vulnerable when naked. Everyone feels this way at some point. You need to relax and realize that he loves you and won't judge you based on physicality.
You have to stop comparing yourself to others especially models, movie stars, or other imagery of what the perfect body looks like. We come in all shapes and sizes and everyone is beautiful. If he can't see that than he should never see anyone naked except for himself.
I'm sure he will appreciate how hard this is for someone else as he must have or does fear the same reaction from you. In the meantime, I would build up your self-image to realize that there's nothing flawed or wrong with you. You have to understand that before you'll ever be comfortable with him seeing you.
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Hello.
This is so normal. But just remember that he obviously loves you as well and he picked you out of all people in the world! Or look at it this way: Do you care about what he looks like naked? NOOO, because you love him. It's exactly the same thing.
Try not to worry about it. :)
Take care <3.
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