I've always had tons of close girl friends and I am really shy and people always tease me about liking this boy, that boy, that I feel awkward with guys. Lately though, there's this guy who I'm kind of friends with. He's very calm, cool, funny and kind. I really want to be close friends with him and hang out with him more. How do I do that without him thinking that I like him? Coz I really just want to be closer friends with him, and I don't have a crush on him or anything. I've never had any close guy friends bfore so how do I make this not awkward?
Additional info, added Friday October 1 2010, 3:13 pm: I would appreciate honest advices from guys especially. And girls too. Any advice is welcome!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AdviceMistress answered Saturday October 2 2010, 4:36 pm: I'm different I hang out with all guys and I don't have that many girl friends! Just talk to him like you would talk to one of your girlfriends and ask him for advice don't be nervous. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime maybe even ask him on what guys are really thinking so he doesn't assume you're trying to date him. If you ask him about a guy you like in school he'll assume this is just a friend thing which is what you want. Bottom line don't be nervous and remember don't force him. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Xafire answered Saturday October 2 2010, 8:38 am: Be his video game buddy!!! I mean that would really close this deal. But make sure your good ;)
Start off wil hey, i just bought this cool game (let it be a fighting game or a car racing game) and just ask do you wanna come over to play it sometime? since i don't think my girl friends will want to play this game since it's a "guy" game. [ Xafire's advice column | Ask Xafire A Question ]
WillLover13 answered Friday October 1 2010, 10:38 pm: Just ask him normal questions. Like "What is your favorite color?" and questions like that. Just tell him you want to be good friends with him. That's basically all you need to know. [ WillLover13's advice column | Ask WillLover13 A Question ]
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