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addicted to watching porn.
Okay, so I am 15 years old and i love watching porn. and no im not turned on by in by i just like watching it. is this normal?
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It's normal to be curious and fascinated by porn, and if you just watch it every now and then, it's probably not an addiction. If you think about it all the time and watch it every chance you get, you are probably developing an addiction and should do something to break the habit immediately.
At this point in your life, if you watch porn without understanding what you're really watching, you probably will develop a very warped and twisted attitude about sex. This will lead to relationship problems for the rest of your life, and worst of all, you'll won't ever truly experience how absolutely, heavenly, amazing, and wonderful - sex can and SHOULD be.
Real life isn't like porn. In real life sex is personal and private - THE MOST intimate thing you can do with any other person. No matter what your friends say or what you hear, sex is not casual, it always comes with strings attached. There's the chance of pregnancy, the risk of diseases - and even the cleanest person in the world, even virgins, can get these diseases - from blood transfusions, from dirty cuts, there are many ways to pick up diseases. They are passed not just by sex, but also by blood.
The people in porn flicks are not having sex - they're performing. They're pretending. It's completely fake. There's a roomful of people you can't see and cameras everywhere. They wear makeup all over their bodies and say the same lines and do the same things over and over and over again until they get it perfect. Often they take drugs so they can endure it - because usually they are NOT having fun, it's tedious and disgusting and shameful to them. They have to make a living - it's all about money. The people in the video make money, the people selling the video make money - and the people addicted to it - and the people like YOU - PAY that money.
Yes, it's normal to be curious, and even to be somewhat fascinated by porn. Just remember that's the reaction they WANT you to have - because they want you to pay. The directors are there, off screen, telling them every move to make, all to come up with the kinkiest things imaginable - just to sell movies and clips.
No matter how you look at it, there's nothing really good about porn. If you're with your friends and you're all watching it - try to remember exactly what it is you're watching. Otherwise, try not to watch it - because you're not seeing sex at all. Just actors playing a part.
Above all, remember that sex is the physical side of love. It's the most intimate, personal, private, and special act that should only be done with someone you already feel close and intimate with. You should be able to tell this person anything before you ever have sex, and when you do have sex, it's between the two of you and NO one else. Otherwise you'll be cheating yourself AND the person you're with out of truly enjoying one of the most amazing and wonderful things you will ever do in your entire life.
I wish you the best of luck and hope you are able to figure out why you like it so much and then kick the habit! :) Live life to the fullest - but don't cheat yourself out of the wonderful experience that sex is supposed to be.
If you do keep watching porn, don't let it fool you into thinking sex is the way they make it seem on the screen. Sex is the closest you will ever get to a person; don't waste it on someone you barely know or hardly care for.
Good luck!!
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