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never in the mood
ok so lately i have been feelin tired ALL the time. i never have energy anymore.
my boyfriend and i are sexually active, but i am never in the mood. if i force myself to try to have sex, i feel gross and dirty...like i want NOTHING to do with sex. this has caused problems with our relationship and idk what to do ro what is wrong with me.
advice?
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Hey there,
If you are tired all the time, try taking B12 vitamins. They are called the energy pill and if you take the correct dose everyday for about a week you should start to feel less tired. A lot of people are B12 deficient and usually they don't even know it. Or try going for a walk/taking a nice shower, they help you to wake up as well.
As for never being in the mood... that is likely because you are doing the same old thing and never spicing up your life in bed. Try something new! Try a different position, try new moves, wear new and attractive underwear (it not only makes you feel sexier, it makes him excited too), do it in a place in your house you've never done it before, and be sure to set the mood. Not only having the right physical set, but having the right mind set is crucial.
If you introduce new items, there will be more facination. If you have him take more time on foreplay and slowly build yourself up, you will be more willing. And, if you can use all your senses, you will be more psyched for sex before and during.
There probly isn't anything wrong with you, you are likely just having an off time or maybe he isn't pleasuring you the way you really want. Tell him what feels good and have him do the same for you. If he communicates how good it feels for him and how he hopes he is satisfying you during it all, you will feel more turned on just by his voice/words. Communication always steers you towards better sex.
If any of what I said helps you towards a better sex life, the next time he is in the mood, tell him you want him to blindfold you and seduce you. Not knowing what is coming will allow you to only concentrate on his motions and his movements. Try the new, focus on the moment, and soon your mood will be nothing but pure happiness <3
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You have the same problem my wife has kinda .I haven't had sex with her in over a year and I'm 39 she's 33 we or should I say I am sexualy active .she sure the hell isn't. But I know I can't go on like this .I wish I could help you but I can't. Help myself .so if and when you find the answer please let me know .iv talked to my wife several times about thi issue but she can't explain it either
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