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my friend likes him but i talk to him more
so there is this guy lets call him trevor. well my friend allison likes him. she stopped liking him and was liking some other guy. while she was liking this other guy i started crushing on trevor. well she thinks the other guy is talking to this other guy so she starts liking trevor again. she asks me for advice about him and i give it to her. she decides to write him a note and she asked if i could give it to him. well i did. i know things arent going to be akward with trevor because he talked to me a lil bit two class hours after i gave him the note. but i just wanna know is it wrong that im crushing on a guy that im helping my friend get with. I mean its not a big crush. its just that he talks to me. and he never really talks to my friend. and if nothing happens between her and my friend she will probably like someone else. even though she keeps going back to liking this guy. but anyways do you think what im doing is wrong? thanks :)
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There have been similar questions like this one before. No matter how cute the guy or how much you like him your friendship is much more important. Guys come and go, friends are forever! You should be honest with her and let her know you're crushing on him too and maybe you both need to decide what's more important your friendship or Trevor? I think you need to be honest with her and with yourself. Say they were to start dating would that bother you? And what would she think if something happened between the both of you? Boys aren't worthing losing a friendship over. My best friend, of 8 years, and I both liked this one guy. I liked him and she over time started liking him...he started dating her and it broke me. To think that she would do something like that hurt me more than ever. I eventually got over it and was happy for her. The thing I should have said was that I had a problem with it and I should have spoken up. Just be honest your friends you should be able to talk to her about anything! Good luck!
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Hey there,
It is not wrong to crush on a guy just because your friend likes him. You obviously both have simular interests ;) and as long as you and your girl friend are getting along and as long as all three of you are getting along, then no worries. It is common for this to happen to anybody. He isn't dating anyone so it is kind of a free for all.
If she dates him, he is hers and then you can still crush on him, but you cannot take him away from her. If he doesn't really like her or moves on eventually after dating her (or not), then you can have your chance. There is nothing wrong with helping a friend have the guy she likes. That is very nice of you. As for now, he is available (first come, first served) and as long as he is, crush away. You never know, he could be yours in time <3
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