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Elegant 18/ Sweet 18 Candle dedications?
i never had a sweet 16, but i am planning to have a sweet 18 for my legal birthday. But im curious. I dont really want to make 18 people write a speech for me. Id rather write speeches for 18 people that mean the most to me... like a sweet 16 candle ceremony. Can i do that? Or do i have to choose 18 people to say something about me?
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Of course you can do that! Make the plan clear to those you invite by planning it out thoroughly. Be careful not to accidently hurt someone by leaving them out; if you invite 20 people and say something special about 18 of them, the other two may feel hurt. But yes, of course you can set up your ceremony however you want to.
Now, if you are worried about being unconventional or committing a social no-no, I'm probably not the person to listen to. :) In that case, you can look up information on etiquette to make sure you're not doing anything that is social-suicide, so to speak.
Definately the only thing I'd worry about is accidentally leaving someone out or hurting someone who thinks they are important to you; leaving someone out and ending up having someone there with hurt feelings or being offended.
Good luck and have a Happy Birthday, either way!
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