|
Should I believe my husband?
My husband forgot to log off his gmail account. I found out that he signed up for "citysex.com" and amateurmatch.com". When I confronted him, he told me it was a stupid mistake and he was just playing around. I'm so confused, because our relationship has been so harmonious (physically & emotionally" and can't understand why he would sign up for something like that. Please help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
you say that you two are harmonious which would mean that you trust each other so it would be easy for you to talk to him about it try to be understanding about it and the truth will come out men in relationships often tend to get bored so they turn to these websites for excitement so hows about you do something to spice up your relationship thism will help a lot i'm sure he wants that every man does but doesn't really know how to ask you but don't worry about those websites most men do it doesn't really mean anything
]
This is exactly how marriages crumble quickly.
He may or may not have been going to go through with these sorts of things. The truth is, nobody really knows other than your husband. Nobody can even give you an good, reasonable guess as to whether or not he was going to have some sort of sexual reaction with another person.
First you should talk with your husband and see what he says about it. It's possible he was trying to live out some fantasy on the internet. It's possible he wants another woman. We can't really say.
Then, go to a marriage counselor to talk about this. If you don't get into therapy this is going to eat at you for the rest of your marriage. You will always have the "what if" questions if you cannot get this fully resolved. A marriage counselor can work with you both to figure out where these actions stemmed from and what the true motives were of his. The counselor can also help you to ease your mind and relax about what has already been done in the marriage so that you both can move on and heal.
A lot of men try to act out fantasies online that they feel ashamed of to request from their wives. This could be a threesome or even sexual relations with another man. It's fairly common but can definitely destroy a marriage because of the gunk that comes with the online adventure.
Talk with a professional together and see what can be done about getting this completely resolved on both ends.
]
More Questions: |