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cheating?
I found out my husband signed up for "citysex.com and amateurmatch.com". We have been getting along beautifully (physically and emotionally). When I confronted him, he said it was a mistake and he was just playing around. My issue is why would he even consider signing up for one of these websites?..and had i not caught him would he have pursued?
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This is definitely a red flag, though don't go hiring the divorce lawyers just yet. You say you were getting along great. Does that mean there was a time when you weren't? I ask because I'm wondering if his "cyber-cheating" might be from a time when the two of you were having difficulty. Or maybe things aren't as great as you think. I suggest keeping an eye out for other red flags in the future. Don't treat him with mistrust, but just be aware of things he says and does. Let your instincts be your guide. If you feel he is not being totally honest with you, perhaps counseling would be a good option. In the meantime, make it clear to him (if you haven't already) that his actions have hurt you and hurt your trust and you would like a better explanation than "I was just playing around". You deserve that much. You are his wife, after all.
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