Question Posted Saturday September 25 2010, 11:13 pm
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OK so I really like this guy Jose he is really nice ,but he dosen't like me.We were at camp for our school peer group.He wrote on my paper "your a good friend DON'T change"So I am really bummed.Then on the nus ride back from camp this boy Jared was hitting on me.We were talking about how boy get turned on easier i don't know why but i like grabbed his knee and it seemed like he like it so I did the whole walking w/ my fingers up and down his leg.I feel bad I was leading him on now my best friend thinks he likes me not her so i need help I am starting to realize he is kinda cute ,but i stll really like jose.What do i do??
THNX IN ADVANCE
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rosey answered Friday October 1 2010, 2:04 pm: TINK2359,
Trust me I know how it feel to find out the guy you really like doesn't feel the same. I know this is going to be hard to swallow but take it from someone who knows, you cannot change their minds. The feelings you have for Jared are common you are turning to someone who likes you in a time of rejection. DONT DO IT!! if you only like the fact that Jared likes you, you are setting yourself up for disaster. I think one thing that all girls and women should realize is that it is the woman not the man, who are the hunters. Woman are more intreged by someone we have to chase rather than someone who lays beneathe our feet and says "here I am". In many situations you will find that you really like a guy until you catch him. It is kind like fishing, you will reel in all the fish but you will through back the ones that aren't worth keeping. Luckily for the avid fisherman the fish dont mind being thrown back. Unfortunately for women men aren't as forgiving and get disgruntaled when tossed. For this reason we should be careful when dealing with issues of the heart. Another thing that concerns me is Jared topic of conversation, it is not your problem how easily boys get turned on, this is very inappropriate conversation for a simple bus ride. Seems to me that Jared has one thing on his mind, and you should not waste your time fighting off advancements for a boy you really dont even like. Hope this helps :) Rosey [ Rosey's advice column | Ask Rosey A Question ]
Rene5009 answered Sunday September 26 2010, 7:36 pm: Are you sure he doesn't like you? or are you assuming he doesn't? Just becuase he wrote that doesn't mean he likes you or not. It just means he likes who you are and is grateful he has you as a friend..tell him how you feel..you never know until you actually try, its tough but thats what life is all about taking chances. and the dude that was hitting on you, just tell your best friend your not intrested and she has nothing to worry about and don't give him any signals..and he'll lay off. [ Rene5009's advice column | Ask Rene5009 A Question ]
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