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im tied between two guys they're friends!
so i've been going out with this guy hes done with school and is now in college and im in school with his friend his friend and i started of being friends but then we both started getting really close and he eventually told me he likes me and we have a connection then we just started getting touchy then i find out that he tells my boyfriend lies about me and tells me lies about my boyfriend to try and break us up but when i spoke to him he didn't even mention the idea of the two of us dating and i like this guy more than my boyfriend but im afraid if he doesn't wanna date i would lose him and my boyfriend
please help me!
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if i were you i would break up with my boyfriend. if it's possible for you to like someone more, then he obviously isn't good enough. don't settle for less, [but don't wait for perfection, it doesn't exist.] and you probably shouldn't be with his friend either. if he's lying and being dishonest now, it doesn't seem like he'd make a very good boyfriend. and remember that you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. you actually may find yourself happier without one, at least until the right person comes along.
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I was in a similar situation. For me, I dated my boyfriend for a year, and then I met a new guy that I was not only attracted to, but I really honestly liked him more than my boyfriend, which is hard for me to admit because I feel so bad about it. I broke up with my boyfriend for the other guy, but then when the other guy didn't show his interest anymore, I was left alone, so I tried to get back with my boyfriend.
I think that this is what you should avoid. If you like another guy more than your boyfriend, you know deep down that your relationship with your boyfriend is not really going to last much longer, and that you need to break it off. I am sure that you care about your boyfriend, but seriously, if you're considering breaking up with him, it's time to just do it. You may be afraid to hurt him, or that you will get hurt, and yes this will happen, but it's better than staying with him just so that you're not alone or so that you're not hurt. And please don't get back with your boyfriend solely because the other guy rejects you. (not saying he will, but if he does, i mean.) I know that you like both of them, but like the other person that answered said, you probably shouldn't be with either of these guys. The one guy - your boyfriend - just doesn't do it for you (since you aren't 100% dedicated to him), so you probably shouldn't waste more time with him. The other guy - your boyfriend's friend - is pretty much playing games. "he didn't even mention the idea of the two of us dating." but "we started getting touchy, then i find out he tells my boyfriend lies about my boyfriend"...does this really sound like boyfriend material?
My suggestion is that you stay single for a while until you find a guy that you really like that likes you back.
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In my opinion I don't think you should date either of them, you said you like your boyfriend's friend more, if thats the case you shouldn't be with your boyfriend anymore, you should be with someone you really like..however you said your boyfriend's friend lied to try to break you two up, to me I wouldn't want that kind of person to be my boyfriend, but of course i don't know him personally so i can't exactly say, so heres another option, dump your boyfriend and take a chance, your boyfriend's relationship won't go anywhere because you like someone more than him, and i'm pretty sure your boyfriend's friend wants to date you :) if a guy tells you how he feels about you, it usually means he wants the relationship to go further..plus he tried to break you and your boyfriend up thats a big sign that he does wanna date you.
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