Question Posted Wednesday September 22 2010, 2:25 am
This is a REALLY weird question but bear with me here. I know this guy at school and he's totally gay, queer, homosexual, or whatever you want to label him as. Today we were talking about sex stuff and he was, of course, talking about guys he's been with and whatnot. I'm curious about something but I'm NOT going to ask him. The same stuff that turns me on (I'm a GIRL) turns him on, right? Or does he still get hardons when he sees a naked woman? I'm just wondering really it won't change my friendship with him but I don't want to assume he thinks like me if he doesn't? Get me?
Peeps answered Wednesday September 22 2010, 6:48 am: I think what you mean to ask is: Does this guy get turned on by male or female bodies?
If he's homosexual then he is probably turned on by only males or people of the same gender. He probably doesn't get much pleasure from seeing naked females; however, it is possible he does enjoy looking at naked females though has no sexual attraction to them.
Now, it could be very different from what you like about men. You may like, say, brown hair and big, strong arms with muscle. He may like blonds with thin frames.
The best bet is to just ask him if you're really curious. It's likely he won't say anything too out of line that would be seriously disgusting.
So, your answer is yes and no. Yes, he does like guys and is probably physically attracted to men. No, he doesn't necessarily enjoy the same things you do when looking at what you consider an attractive man. It's part of being human :) [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
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