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My friends make me feel left out
My friends always ignore my opinions! And when I tell a story, they will talk about another topic! And I feel nervous now because I know about their plan. Their plan is to make my life suffer and when I have a crush they will hunt him down and tell him and lie about me and tell bad things about me that aren't true and make my other friends my enemies. Now what will I do?! My life is going to be ruined in three months! And did I mention they will post a picture in a website with me with no underwear and no shirt or bra?!
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The first issue that needs addressing is the last one you mention.
If you're under 18 (as I suspect you are) and they have in their possession a picture of you nude, then they have possession of child pornography. If they were to post that, they would be guilty of distributing child pornography. Let them know now that they need to destroy any copies they have, and that if they do post it you will take the matter to the police. What they're proposing to do is illegal.
As for the other stuff, why are they your friends? Friends don't do this sort of stuff. I'm sure there are plenty of other kids at your school who are nice, decent people who would love to be friends with you. The only reason you have to deal with this is because you continue to associate with them. They're pushing to find your limits. As long as you stay 'friends' with them, they will keep doing worse and worse things to you until you react. Don't talk to them. Don't tell them who your crush is. Don't give them anything that they can use against you. Tell them they're not worth your time, and walk away. Being alone is better than being with these people.
I can guarantee you that any new friends won't be affected by nasty things that these other girls say. Obviously they're manipulative jerks, and there's no way that anybody else at your school has missed that.
Remember that there's no shame in being alone for a bit. Having no friends is better than having fake friends who hurt you like that.
If they act aggressively towards you in school (name-calling, hitting, spitting, etc) then you can take the matter to your principal. Most schools have a no-tolerance bullying policy.
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you need new friends. prove you're mature and find new friends who appreciate what you have to give because it's so much! you are beautiful and wonderful and dont need anyone holding you back from being an awesome person.
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