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Worried while having sex
18f.
So I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago. I'm on birth control and he used a condom. But still, the whole time we were having sex I couldn't stop thinking: is the condom still on? did it break?
Just things like that kept running through my mind which sort of killed the moment. Don't get me wrong, it was great but I still couldn't stop thinking about the possibility of something going wrong. Is it always like this? Or do you think it was just because it was my first time having sex?
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It was just your first time paranoia of becoming pregnant. Something that you obviously arent ready for is motherhood thats why you were nervous. I believe you should be fine, condoms do break but rarely. If your paranoia is that bad of pregnancy, maybe you should consider not having sex anymore until your ready to take on the risks better of possibly becoming pregnant.
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Don't worry so much. I think it's because you experienced sex for the first time. The thought will always be in your mind after having sex but if you plan to continue to have sex then you should not allow these scary thoughts to affect your good time with your partner. It is a very wise thing that you are taking the necessary precautions to prevent pregnancy and STD's. Don't worry and have fun.
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