Two days ago, I had a fight with my boyfriend on AIM. It basically ended when he just stopped responding to what I was saying and we haven't talked since. I know this probably sounds like a stupid teenage fight, and maybe it is. But I honestly don't know what to do and need some solid advice.
I hate not talking to him and I just want us to work things out. And we start college in a couple of days- we're gonna have classes together and see each other; if we don't make peace it's going to be awkward. But on the other hand, I was the one that started it; I called him out when he really hurt my feelings. He apologized, but that was when I was still bitching at him. He was being extremely sarcastic and didn't even mean it - it was more of an "I said I'm sorry it's all my fault again so please leave me alone now" apology. If that makes sense.
Anyway, I feel like if I'm the one that breaks this stupid silent treatment, it might go over like what I said to him before didn't really matter. But I WANT us to talk about it and work thorugh it.
What should I do? If I SHOULD talk to him, what do I even say?
Elliah4yue answered Wednesday August 25 2010, 12:34 am: Ellaih4yue:
oaky plane and simple call him
up when your civilize cause the both of youupset is not going to work out...however if
you know you are wrong stop procasanating
and admit it to him and yourself...that you was wrong for being so extra...it okay so call your boyfriend on the things he did to upset you but sometime making it seem more then it really is can be a little to much...so I cant blame for the way that he was apologzing to you...if you you say that you was BITCHING at him which mean you was pretty much taken it where it didnt really need to be....but that okay cause that are job as girl it just something you dont want to make a habit...
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