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My friend makes me so mad.
I am 15, girl. I am having my birthday this month and I had a few plans with certain friends that weekend before my party and it was all set, we knew exactly what we were gonna do.. and my best friend (boy) bailed. So, I asked if he would be able to come to my party still and he said yea why not and then he said he doesn't know when he is going to come home from where he was going to be that weekend and I got so mad. Naturally, when I get mad at someone, I freeze them out. I am a happy person who is nice all the time but when you do something to me, you could die of frost bite. So, I told him that it was funny because everyone said he wasn't going to come and I was just saying all of this stuff to him, I don't regret it but I just really want him to come. So my question is, if he comes, what should I do and say? If he doesn't show up, what should I say to him and how should I handle it?
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haha, I would just like to say I was also once a master of freezing people who hurt me out. From my experiences with that I would like to conclude "DO NOT... EVER DO THAT" It's the worst thing possible because it'll end up hurting you. You will miss this guy because as you said he was/ is your best friend. Do you know how hard it is to get someone back after freezing them out? Very hard, and you don't want that. In this life you need to have friends.. and I know it feels like he is being a complete JERK. But I agree. Maybe you could arrange a movie or somehting small after he gets back.. or just be like "if you wanna come, come I would love for you to be there" and if he shows great be happy its YOUR b-day don't let him ruin it. If he Doesn't show.. well that's bad, lol there isn't any other way around it and it'll hurt your feelings. You can tell him you wished he was there, he missed out. But don't freeze him out. Losing someone is one of the worst things, and you realize that a little bit as your doing it but a couple years from now you will REALLY notice-- promise.
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