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DREAMS "of him"
So I have been having these dreams about this guy that i dont or havent had any feelings for, and summer is narrowing down and im starting to think about this guy. Its not heart winching like when I really like someone its just thoughts of him. Its like im missing him but i dont really talk to him alot, just in classes and stuff. I just want to talk to him and i dont know why. Like my friend had a big crush on him. She doesnt like him she says its just like an never ending thing because we've known him through elementry and highschool but yet never talked to him really. Thats the only connecting i see by him beeing in my dreams. But I dont think thats the reason. I just want to know why I would dream about him and now i cant stop thinking about him. I know they're just dreams and dreams are just dreams. I just dont understand where this is coming from. Me thinking about him randomly. Help me please because I dont want to start liking him because I know we wont ever have anything. So thanks for the help! <3
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Sometimes, whether you may realize it or not, you over think a situation which causes it to manifest within your cranium- meaning it leads to all different kinds of thoughts (good or bad) --that you question. If you really can't narrow down what started making you think about him, or why you are- it's pretty much up to you as to what you can do. The more you try not to think about it, the more you will. It's like saying "Try not to think about penguins" -- you're instantly prone to thinking of them. You could, just bring it up to him randomly- maybe you're brains looking for a reason to talk to him, whatever reason it may be! Or if that's too ris-que for you, talk it over with yourself. Try to remember the other elements of the (dreams). Maybe your thinking about your friend, which triggered something that made you channel an attribute of hers. See if talking to her- not about the dream but just her love interests lately- solves any confusion. But all in all, a dream is a dream-like you said- it's subconscious. It could just mean you're looking for someone and have chosen him as an example. There's so many ways to base it, and sometimes it can really stress you out if you think about it too much, which may trick you into thinking you actually like this guy :P. All in all, it's best to talk to him anyways if you are in the same classes this year- I mean, what's the worst that could happen? ;) Take it how you want it, either an initiative to start up something, or just a silly little dream of romance :P. It's all in the mind, so don't take it too literal ! :D Hope i helped yah in any way and good luck*!
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