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how do i get out of what i did?


Question Posted Monday August 16 2010, 4:37 pm

so yesterday we were talking and everything was fine. but then he asked why i was texting him and i said cause i wanted to talk.
and he was like idk since you insulted me.

the month after he broke up with me he was being a jerk about everything so i made some small comments that werent appropiate and in which i regret completely because i only said them out of anger.

so i asked him if he hated me and he said idk but i have no reason to believe he hates me cause they werent that bad of comments. but then i asked if he was mad at me and he said alittle. i asked him if he could just tell me but he didnt answer and thats how the conversation was left. i apologized for what i did because i truly didnt mean it.

im just wondering how i can get over it and try to get him to forgive me. like i know he saw me at my worst and i regret it but i also believe in second chances and i want to tell him that but i dont want to freak him out.

and since he didnt answer that last text, what do i do? like should i give it a few days and ask again?

im sorry. i just dont know what to do. it was a rough month for me and i took it out on him. he cant blame me for that.


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Advicelady6798 answered Monday August 16 2010, 5:04 pm:
If you were having a rough month, tell him about it. If he is the understanding person you are trying to make him out to be, he will listen. You need to tell him that you are sorry that you offended him and you will do whatever it takes to make sure it doesn't happen again. If he wasn't truly going to forgive, he wouldn't have even bothered with responding to you. Once he starts talking again, and you guys go back to the usual conversations, you will forgive and forget. Also, a red flag on apologizing and not knowing the reason. Guys tend to get agrivated when you apologize and don't know the reason. If he asks why are you apologizing, say for offending you that day. You were being slightly mean and I said the wrong things in response. I am truly sorry and did not intend on offending. Will please accept my apology?

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