|
regarding trying to find my way in life
Thank you for your feedback it made a lot of sence.iv had a rough life not just with my parents and siblings but as well with my ex wife she had a son from a previous mariage who I pretty much raisd since he was a year old up untill 6 .I tried everything to raise him up proper but he would see his real dad every other weekend and of course his father resented the fact that I was raising him on the fact he was mexican and I am white .two different coultures .but the child was out of control defieng everything I. Tried to bring him up as I saw right .and his mother now my ex did not like me disiplining himwhen he got in trouble so my wife at the time left me for another man {a registerd sex offender] who was shacking up in a motel . But let's go back a little I had a daughter from her to who was 3 at the time I tried to get my daughter but was thretiend with kidnapping .she told the police I was beating the kids but it was her boyfriend who did I didn't have a whole lot of money to get an attorney so I got one from the state who did nothing for me I was charged with injury to a child twice and now I have a fellony ane am not alowed to see my daughter I haven't seen her since she was 3 now she's 12 so you can see that everything is tooken from me my whole life and I live with this every day
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?
I gotta say, that is an interesting story...
I have to add that I can understand the guys resentment towards you for being the one who raised his child... who wouldn't get jealous of having the image of a real father taken away from them?
- I can tell you one thing, you did an amazing job trying to raise that kid from up to the age of 6 and you should be more than proud of yourself for doing so! your ex probably was not liking the idea that someone who wasn't the real kids father yelled at him or spanked him when he misbehaved. But that is understandable though you did your best and that is all that truly matters in the end... nothing else but your great efforts.
it says a lot of good things about you as a human being. You have a clean conscious over that and you should give that situation a rest... you did what you could and if the biological father wants to raise him then so be it, hopefully that kid is in good hands you did your part let them do theirs.
- The situation with your daughter, let me explain something... sometimes the evil people take advantage of the good people... do not worry you have gone through false accusations but you will survive... she might be away from you right now but do whatever it takes to win her back! do not give up on this great possibility. you have the right to see your daughter but due to your felony charges you are pretty much can't at all. I suggest you start to take legal action, raise up some money and get a good lawyer so that you and your daughter can see each other again... write letters to her meanwhile ( if you legally can)tell her how much you love and care for her... express your true love in these letters and if they never get to her, at least you know you had her in your heart and one day when she grows up she will want to find you and you can show her those letters you have written to her that never got to her for some reason. I don't know how bad or evil your ex-wife is but if she does not like playing a fare and respectful game, do not give up whatsoever fight for the right to see your daughter! enough of letting people bring you down and not appreciating all that you have done..
- Hey, but take it easy do not let you anger or mixed emotions get the best of you! control yourself and do not do anything that will hurt you rather than help you. Keep positive and do everything the right way. Have patience and courage and you will finally start to improve your life.
- You will get to see your daughter sooner or later don't worry take it easy and have patience... if your ex-wife is not a good mother like she seems to me is not a good human being, then you can get all the factual and necessary prove that she is not able to take care of her daughter... start to establish yourself... get a good job, work hard and earn money for you to be able to prove to the judge etc. that you are a good person and even though you have a felony - a fake one at that, you can still take care of your daughter. you might even be able to prove that your "felony" is a fake! maybe you can get your ex-wife to admit it in court or something if this is really true.
I wish you the best!
if anything I am here
take care
-trueadvice3
]
More Questions: |