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Proving you have changed


Question Posted Sunday August 15 2010, 6:43 pm

Me and my boyfriend have along distance relationship, he lives in a different country. I have cheated on him twice and told him the next day and I am trying to change and I know I can. But how do i prove that to him when we can't even be around each other and hang out.

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heather21 answered Monday August 16 2010, 3:01 pm:
i got cheated on many times, and the trust went down the drain and there was no hope for it. with out trust, nothing will work. I always wanted my ex to reallly understand what he did, like try every day to make it up to me, talk to me let me know what he is doing at allll times, it seems annoying but it makes them feel better. send him gifts. Always talk to him. Its gonna be really hard, but if you truely want to change and prove it to him it should all work out. just put yourself in his shoes

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xxx2511xxx answered Monday August 16 2010, 12:06 pm:
perhaps you should try placing yourself in his shoes.what would you feel once you get to know that you're far away from a beloved and the person that you love dearly is cheating on you? i bet the feeling is horrible being in your boyfriend's shoes. you should think about that if you ever hesitate wheter or not to hook up with a guy for not only you are dissapointing yourself but you are also breaking your boyfriends heart.just think of it that way and i hope that your relationship will stay strong.

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staceyxlove answered Monday August 16 2010, 12:04 pm:
well he has given you another chance, so deep down he must believe that you can change. you have to show a new side to you. show him more affection, i know that's difficult when you can't kiss/cuddle every night...explain how he makes you feel and how lucky you are to have him, and how forgiving he is for giving you another chance. don't lie though, if you are going to cheat on him again then don't say you won't else he will lose all respect for you.

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