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i hate that im doing this to you but
a) no one is helping me out &
b) no one is actually supporting the idea of that i can get him back.
im just doubting myself now, like is this what i truly want? and am i just giving up just because he isnt really talking much?
i just want our conversations to be easier and im scared that when i text him next he wont answer like he did the last time.
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If they were truly your friends, they would support anything you do. Friends will walk by your side when you want to vandalize an ex's car or give you a bat when your upset with the loss of a loved one. What you friends are doing and saying is not what they should be doing or saying. They don't want to see you succeed and the thought of you being happy when their not, is something they can't handle. Often friends want their friends to drown in misery, the same misery as them. If they find their friend finding happiness, they do whatever it takes to make sure they don't succeed. This is your case and you need to ignore your friends.
Point 2: This is what you want because its all you think about. You can't sleep and your alays contradicting yourself. You wonder what do they think, what are they doing, and how do they feel. These are the signs of someone who is truly in love with someone. It is true in life you don't always have a happy lifestyle but I believe that if you truly find someone you are completely and hopelessly in love with, you will end up together in the end.
Point 3: Men like short conversations. Majority of the time, their thoughts are mostly inappropriate. Sometimes they don't respond because they are busy and get sidetracked. You make it sound like he has no life, sits around, and chooses to ignore you. If he is a guy, he is will tell you exactly how he feels if he is annoyed, bored, or hates you. You haven't gotten a text saying i hate you please leave me alone. He isn't responding because he actually is doing something and doesn't have time to respond at the time then eventually forgets altogether.
Having a second chance at a relationship is going to be so much harder than the first because your expectations are failure...which proves what you are thinking. You need to stop being paranoid and analyzing everything for the worst. You are blowing things way out of proportion and if you want, I will text him and get the inside scoop. Just give me your name and his..there you go. The conversations are going to be awkward and confusing for a couple of months, its the time where you guys are getting to know and used to the other person again.
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