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odd one out. guys dont like me.
so like most of my friends have guys that like them but i feel like im not going to ever have anybody. I feel lonely most of the time because no guys seem to like me. I just dont understand. I am 17 and a senior so i will be graduating this school year. I know lots of people just say wait for college but i get lonely and i see my friends happy. I dont understand why either. Im not ugly, im usually outgoing and funny. I have a pretty nice personality. Im nice but not to nice. I am also very friendly. i flirt with guys they flirt with me but they are just flirting. guys that i like dont seem to like me either or they just dont act like they dont. i just wished that i didnt feel so lonely all the time. I know i have great friends and shouldnt worry about the guys, but my friends have guys that want them to do things with and i always feel like the third wheel. im just wondering why guys dont really like me or see me as dating material (thanks for the help <3)
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I'm a guy and if guys aren't liking you and your not ugly then try wearing really short shorts and a pushup bra if you make yourself look like that guys will swarm you and also it may be because they r shy 2
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loneliness is definitely one of the worst feelings in the world! i hear you on that one.
take a quick moment and think about all the things you like about yourself. what hobbies, activities, hangouts, or interests do you have? you'd probably want someone who can at least relate to them or like them also, right? what if the right guy came along but you didn't think your friends would think he's cool enough, attractive enough, or worth it? would you pass up a great guy because you're afraid of what other people will think?
if you're flirting with a guy and he's flirting back, maybe you should ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. this is a great first step. otherwise, you'll never know whether they like you or not! just don't get depressed because other people are dating and you aren't. you work on your own schedule and do your own thing until the time is right; don't force it.
best of luck!
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don't ever under estimate yourself, girl. don't rush into anything, either. if guys flirt with you, it's showing that you are good enough for a relationship, just maybe not with them. i've been a third wheel for quite awhile. i know exactly how it feels. guys are stubborn and selfish and take advantage of girls, sometimes. but my advice is to go out there, flirt, be yourself and see what you can do. just have fun! there's really nothing to lose.
i wish you luck. <3
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