Ok, so my mum stopped smoking "trees" for a few months. She hasn't been doing it. She is going for a new job. She said she would not smoke even after the test. She took the test. Tonight It is late and I walk past the hall, a breeze rolls through, I cought a scent of "Trees". So I go to the back room, It gets stronger. She is not holding anything but I see the "thing" in the ash tray. I felt like saying something but acted as if I didn't notice. Now I'm really angry, she talked all this krap about how shw wouldn't start again. Now I hope when she gets this job, that she doesn't spend money on it. If she does I'll throw it out when she isn't around. I don't see any reason for me to get in trouble. Her last job she spent money on the same thing and it pisses me the Fu** off when I do well in school. And when I barely get Sh** for christmas they say, "Oh it's the economy", Bullshit theyr'e too busy burning money. I have poor friends whohave more than me. What should I do? and if possible can anyone tell me the average amount of money wasted on "trees" & "snow"? What can I do? I feel like mad now.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? bigdogdaddy answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 3:29 pm: sadly, it will not stop until she is ready, if she ever will be, and there is nothing you can do about it...if both of them are doing things then it just reinforces the fact..let's find out the cause of whyy they feel theyneed the crap to begin with, and go from there...drugs, trees, flowers, fish...theyare all crutches, nothing more. they will not make her smarter, sexier, better or anything...they do not all it smoking genius for a reason...
RhonaKnows answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 9:23 am: Ask her what's more important; a job that pays money, or YOU. Just talk to her and tell her she's being a hypocrite AND is playing with fire, since you never know when you're going to be re-tested........
Speaking in dollars and cents; trees can cost anywhere from $20 to $100+, depending on the amount and how much is used..........as for snow; IT'S $$$$$$$$$$$ and it's STUPID SH!T since it changes a person's behavior, and is DEF not worth the chance of getting 'popped' (caught) during the purchase. She's being selfish; tell her that; she'll deny it but you're smart; tell her everything you just wrote i your question. I'd be pissed right off, as well~~~!!! You have a voice and a say-so in what happens in your family, so don't be afraid to use it. By the way; you're not the only 'kid' who's parents do this; our generation somehow never stopped.....you'd be surprised~
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