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Should I listen to the others or not?
14 f
I will try to make this quick, because I don't want to take to much of your guy's time. Now I've been miserable for a while now, because of what people are saying about my boyfriend. I've been dating my boyfriend sense July, 5, 2010<3 and I'm proud of how great me and him are in our relationship. We think the same in many ways, and our feelings work in the same way. I keep him strong, he keeps me strong. I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything. He's very sensitve and very caring, he's also a great friend. Now people I don't even know are telling me that he's been cheating on me with one of his friends. Now he tells me that this friend, liked him now he didn't want to be mean to this girl..because he doesn't like hurting peoples feelings...but she was hanging on him and everything but he told her off one day..and said she can't be doing any of this. People won't stop telling me this stuff, and bringing it up in my face when I can't picture my boyfriend doing any of this stuff. He just isn't the type of person. Our relationship is very hard, he has fought to keep me as his girl friend. I don't think he would have wanted to risk any of it. Now should I believe my boyfriend which I really want to do..or should I believe these ppl I don't even know?
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Since you two already have a history together, and you probably know your boyfriend better than anyone else, try analyzing this issue within yourself. Think about it and consider the people you're getting this from. Are they people you know? Do you consider them trustworthy? Listen to what your boyfriend has to tell you. It is up to you to believe if he's being honest or not.
Don't judge him by what other people say about him. Judge him by what you know.
Hope my advice helps you :)
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what did he say? have you two sat down and talked it over?
a relationship does taske a certain ammount of trust, however in small doses is best at first. Since you two have been together for some time, and this is not a fling or summer romance, i assume you two have been open and honest with each other from day one..with that said, you two need to sit down and talk this over...
the second thing to consider, is where these sources are coming from...meaning, are they friends who care about you, know you, etc, or just loose lips trying to destory what you two have out of spite or jealousy?
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Hi :)
You might not like the advice I'm about to give you, but just consider it. You and your boyfriend have only been together for a month. Do you REALLY know him inside and out? Do you really think anything he thinks about doing will stop him from doing it? I'm assuming your boyfriend is 14, like you. At this age, his hormones are running all over the place, and if he feels like doing something he's most likely to proceed in doing so. Since you two have only been together for a month, he's probably not as serious about the relationship as you think he is. Just remember, you two are young, you're still discovering who you are and what you want to do. Honestly, if I were you, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, but keep your eyes and ears open. Don't trust him soooo much. Don't blind yourself. Even some of the most innocent people have evil in them. Let him know that in order for a relationship to work, honesty is necessary. Let him know he can tell you anything, and that you will truly listen. If anything goes wrong, you warned him, and you then have the option to stay single and find someone who will respect your wishes. Good luck!
Uniq
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