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ummm....did you see this?
Hello, I'm a new user and I've been looking through questions and getting a feel for things. Well, I stumbled upon a younger woman asking for advice. You answered her, but gave absolutely no help to her. I find that completely rude and ignorant considering what you wrote and the fact that your advice column says " NOTE: At times I am brutally honest this is not intended to offend anyone as I am here to give advice. I am straight to the point and I put a finger down on certain questions asked.
- Lucy"
Yes, you were brutally honest with your opinion, OhMyLucyDarling, but in no way did you give advice. And obviously you did intend to offend the woman ( contrary to your NOTE) and put her down rather than giving her constructive criticism.
I think that maybe you should read the others who wrote, because they are all using the website better than you. They are giving help based on the person rather than trying to add more grief and guilt to the problem.
To jog your memory on what question this was, here you go:
I'm a 21 year-old mother of a three year-old and a one year-old. My 3 year old has a problem following orders and as much as we punish her and hit her, I'm ashamed to say, she still won't listen. She has no hearing problems she's just disobedient. I don't want her to feel left out cause of her brother and I defenately don want to continue hitting her but I will not allow her to have her way with everything. My husband and I fight about this so much and I need to know what can I do to solve this problem. Please help???!!!
Thank you for your time and I hope you have learned something. I would more than appreciate a reply.
-T
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