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i like a taken boy : \
Alright, I like a guy whos dating another girl... :\ shoot. Haha I am fifteen, gonna be a sophomore. He his sixteen gonna be a junior and the girl he is dating is eighteen gonna be a senior. Let's see... their past. They dated for quite a long time. People who knew him before said she kind of changed him, in a bad way. They broke up for about two months... He started dating this other girl who is the sweetest thing alive, she is so cute and nice but they broke up and he got back togehter with the other girl. But now he's kind of back who he was, like the breakup changed him back. He used to be really whipped but he holds his own now I guess haha. I think they're in love... They have sex and stuff but I know he doesn't expect it from her, and she was his first but she had slept around a bit before him. She really loves him, and I mean this girl is gonna be a senior so we aren't really friends but she takes me out to lunch sometimes and she really likes me, she kinda scares me tho haha. Anyway, I like him... And I hate liking him, I don't want to but I do. We hang out sometimes (in a group) and we'll text every so often, just as friends of course. I've never made a move on him but he flirts with me sometimes, it's completely innocent though because I think he really loves his girlfriend. Its just rough for me because I don't think they'll break up. Like they have a really intese relationship and whaat not and even if they do break up sometime soon I feel like I'd feel bad for dating him after... I don't really know though. Our school is super small so it's kind of hard to avoid dating someone your kind of friends with's ex... But she'll be going to college after this coming school year and maybe that would be a good time to attempt to start something? I mean, I'm pretty sure they'll break up before seh leaves but I don't know... I just don't know what to do. I really really like him. I have for about half a year... the guilt is rough but what can I do??
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I am gonna explain most of this in scientific terms because in all my years alive it is the one which makes the most sense. You like this guy because of biological reasons of course. It is a perfectly normal thing to feel attraction and don't feel bad for liking someone who is "taken". The only surefire was to get over him is to find another boy you are more attracted to. It may not be right away but soon it will happen just give it time. It's gonna happen. Once you find that new boy most, if not all, of your feelings for the old will disappear.
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