There's this guy i like and i have no idea how to show him my true feelings for him. How am i supposed to get his attention? and how to get him to like me, and/or spend time with me? thanx xoxxoxxo
gr8fruit answered Monday July 12 2010, 9:59 pm: Hey there,
To get his attention... stare at him until he looks at you then wink at him while smiling.. he should notice you and want to know what that girl is thinking ;) or you could write a note saying "I would like to get to know you. Would you like to get to know me?" with a heart and your phone number, then casually slip it into his pocket. Or.. flirt with him by sitting next to him and putting your hand on his knee, asking him if he would like to get a soda with you, compliment something he is wearing and when he says "thanks" make conversation with him, touch his shoulder, or you could find out what kind of drink he likes then buy him it and take it to him personally.
To have him want to spend time with you, be friendly, talk to him, make him feel comfortable (guys get nervous as girls do), and as I said before, you could ask him to go grab a drink with you, ask him if he would like to catch a movie with you. And once you get to know him, he will most likely want to spend time with you anyhow and ask you if you want to do something with him.
As for getting him to like you, just be yourself. Every guy loves a girl who is happy (smile), down to earth (has fun), relaxed, positive, someone who listens, someone who supports, and someone who is not afraid to let their true self shine. Once a guy sees the inner you, they will allow you closer to their heart <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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