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exposing myself to bf
So I have really weird looking nipples. And I want to feel close to my boyfriend, by not covering up my body when we have sex (leaving my bra on), but I always felt extremely self conscience about them, and I don't let anyone see them.
So I know my boyfriend will accept me no matter what, that he won't care, but I don't want him to be disappointed that my breasts are so different from other girls', and he won't be able to have as much fun with them as he would with normal breasts.
How do I help myself feel more comfortable when I expose myself? I am only doing it when its dim or completely dark, but I'll still feel reaaalllly self conscience when his hands go over there... or worse his mouth. Any advice? Do I tell him I'm self conscience about them? I'm sure he knows, but I haven't verbally said it before.
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I was really self conscience of mine too. If you want you could definitely tell him that you're self conscience of them. I just kind of figured they are what they are and just went with it. Let me tell you, my boyfriend loves my nipples! lol, really all nipples are different and guys just want to see, touch, suck your nipples no matter what they look like - and thats the truth! Good luck!
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
You have not said how old you are or what your concern with your nipples are. Whatever your concerns are the fact is you have normal nipples in most cases. What you may be seeing are under developed nipples which will change with age. Nipples attached to short milk ducts which can be corrected with Plastic Surgery once your body is fully matured, usually between 18 and 21 years of age and older.
You really should not be embarrassed by your nipples. Your nipples have a primary purpose, which is to feed your child after giving birth; which they will do in almost every instance regardless of how they may look. While they may provide a stimulus for you and your mate during sex that is really secondary and how they may look may not affect this purpose. The following website explains some of the different looks breast nipples have. I suggest you review the information they supply and then if you still have questions either sit down with your mom and discuss it with her or see your Gynecologist and let the doctor examine you and discuss with the doctor your concerns with your nipples. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
In the mean time don’t worry about your nipples; don’t worry about what your boyfriend may think of them. If he is getting enjoyment from them he is probably not thinking anything about how they look. This is how you were born, your nipples will either mature or you can have corrective surgery once your body has fully matured. But satisfy yourself by first reviewing the website I have recommended then seeing your Gynecologist and having an examination and consultation.
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