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I have a girlfriend, we have our problems, but I try to stick through it.
I met another girl online, nowhere near me, started chatting, no detail about our lives, occasional cybering because we both are kinda lacking in sex as of late.
Problem is, the girl online has been burned before, and I want to just take it to being friends without hurting her feelings, and I want to not cause this girl to feel burned again.
Yes, I was wrong. Yes, I made a mistake. Right now, I'm trying to fix everything, so please, spare me the usual speech about the wrong I did and help me to at least fix things so that I can make things right.
Male, 27
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You can't control someone else's feelings.
Unfortunately, one of the primary reasons what you did was 'wrong' is that it was practically guaranteed to hurt someone else at some point. That inevitability is now what you are facing.
Just be honest. You live no where near one another, and she knows you have a girlfriend.
You can't control how she feels. If she feels burned by her long-distance, cyber buddy who has a girlfriend, you can't really change that for her. That's her damage and you can't fix it. The best thing you can do is stop adding to it, by telling her honestly "I still want to be your friend, but this part of our friendship cannot continue."
It will be a long time before you have any chance of making this right and you'll have to say No, nicely, many times. Fixing it is a nobel goal, but it's a long way away. For now, just start by stopping doing the wrong thing, and being honest with her.
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First of all it's just a chick you know online, not someone in person. so really why do you even give a fuck(pardon the language,) you need to get over the online chick and fix things with the girl in real life.
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