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a long time ago you answered my questions
okay..so a long time ago you answered a question of mine ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location) this is rediculous. i know. it's been so long and i still have a problem...i still have feelings for this kid. why? i always ask myself why? what's so special about him? were still not close anymore. but whenever we talk it's magic at how happy and excited i feel. it's strange. i can never forget about him. it aggrivating though. i think i have an imprint on him. everytime i see him...everything changes. i just feel so dismantled. like i feel fine and i can have a normal life. like other boys, enjoy time with friends. but when i see him. everything just dissapears. anything that he does. movement of a arm, smile, slouch, walk. i admire everything. we don't talk like we used to still. i haven't really pushed it because i just gave up. but sometimes i find myself on his facebook looking at his pictures. thoughts in my mind "i remeber that smile...i remember that face, he looks so calm...his cute nose. that's the first thing i noticed about him" i find myself crying next. he just has this affect on me. he even haunts me..in my dreams. he's always there. helping me..In my dreams, whenever i need help, he's always there to help. it's terrible. i want to move on..but i still find myself secretly hoping that magically we'll be good friends again. am i in love? people tell me that i just want him cuz i cant' have him...but is that true? i don't think something like this can go on for this long. what do you think?
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sorry this is such a late response, havent been on in a while. first of all i know exactly what you are going thru, ive had the same problem before and unfortunatly i think i am still in it too. i think so for at least i know that what would help is to just admit to yourself that you really really like this person, but since u feel its never going to happen, move on. im fairly confident tha tonce you find someone else you will at least start to be slightly less obsessed with this one.
and if you dont like that idea may i suggest that you try again with this guy? you seem to really like him and you said you dont try anymore because you gave up, just relaize that if he hasnt made an effort, it doent mean he doesnt like you, sometimes boys just dont know how to approach thier feelings. so at least give it a try and if it doesnt help, try getting over him.
hope i helped :)
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