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im soooo sorry again
but you can pretty much tell that he was just scared everything was going to fast? it kind of makes sense now.
like we dated for 8 months and his other two were not even a month.
he said i was more serious than him but i said we didnt have to use i love you because we are too young to know what that means. and if i do go with his pace. could he ever want to go back out or will he drag me along?
and im just suppose to give him space for now. im sorry i have a lot of questions. you just seem to know what you are talking about.
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Its ok lol I unfortunately, have had alot of relationships and it wasn't them at all, it was me. The thought of committment and saying "I love you" was so serious and scary. I feel like I know this guy because I am like him. First you want to be his friend, this may take months to a year of just being friends, if he is ready to become a couple he will do it on his terms, just sit back and be patient while he figures out that he really does love you. It may take some time, but he will come around. The idea of love and seriousness just scares him, if he finds himself with you for a certain amount of time, he will realize it isn't so bad. I had a one of my ex-boyfriends contact me two years after we graduated, apologizing for everything he did. We became really good friends again, and dated again. It really does work, but the challenge is having enough patience to wait for it to happen.
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