Hi, I am a 17yr old f. So, the other day I was walking my pug down main street of our town and this cute guy walks up. He is wearing no shirt, his abs are gorgeous, he has shorts on, and he is tanned. Lets just say he is an eye opener. He walks up (I notice I have seen him maybe once or twice before), and he says "Hey Dez, congratulations on your graduation." I thank him, then he asks if he can hug me and I say yes. After we hug, he casually asks if I am spoken for (I am kinda shocked he would come right out and ask that, but its kind of bold of him, which I like). I told him no and say I really don't know him that well.. he says "I would like to get to know you." We talk for a bit, he seems like an awesome guy, then he asks if he can have my number. I give him mine and he gives me his. Later on that night, I text his number and say "Just wondering, do you usually get a girls number and wait for her to text you first?" playfully. He has not sent me a message yet (how long does a guy usually wait?) and I am wondering what he might be thinking, what his reason for that is, or whatever you think might be why he has not replied. Should I text him once more and see if he replies? Thanks!
Additional info, added Thursday July 1 2010, 11:45 pm: Just so you know, he is 19 and I am going to be 18 in a few months. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kibawolfe answered Monday July 5 2010, 9:03 am: He sounds totally hot, kind of like a Twilight werewolf lol. XD Anyway, first off, you shouldn't text him again, it might scare him, he might think you're too pushy or desperate. Most girls think if a guy calls her it means he likes her, that's not the case it just means he wants to know you better or hang out more like he thinks you're cool or cute or whatever. You should wait until he works up the courage to text you back, he might be debating whether or not to or he might not have the time to have gotten around to it. It may have made him nervous but it wasn't a bad think just be paitent he sounds pretty cool :3
Good Luck! I wish I could have given you better advice but I'm tired and must wake my friend up!!! Hope it works out! [ kibawolfe's advice column | Ask kibawolfe A Question ]
karenR answered Friday July 2 2010, 7:05 am: I'd wait for him to call you. Something to also consider...Have you seen him texting? I know it is probably rare these days, but not everyone pays for texting service. He may have never gotten your message. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
iwantthetruth answered Friday July 2 2010, 12:13 am: Hey,
Don't text him again, once is good enough. Just wait for him to text you back. Some people play games which is annoying but it could also be that he is genuinely away from his phone. He'll probably text back, possibly before you even read this reply, but regardless just wait it out. [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
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