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what to do on my brithday.


Question Posted Monday June 28 2010, 12:26 am

Hey guys I'm turning 19 on june 30th. And I have no clue what to do. My parents are not doing anything for me they could care less, and all my friends are out of town. So basically I want to do something fun by myself? Or maybe with one of my cousins. And I don't have money.and I don't like clubbing I'm a good girl haha. So yea I know this sucks but I want to make it fun atleast for me. And my parents are horrible they have never cared about me so its not a surprise they won't even remember. I also work but I'm gonna take that day off to do something fun?? Any ideas !! Thanks guys :)

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DangerNerd answered Tuesday June 29 2010, 4:07 am:
I am sorry to hear about the parent situation.

When you say you don't have money, are we talking ZERO cash, or just not a lot?

Here are things for VERY little money:

Picnic with the cousin of your choice. Just have a nice day out at the park, beach or wherever.

I once saw every movie I wanted to on my birthday... just went to the theatre early and saw them back to back. This might be out of reach money wise, but here is an alternate:

Movie night at home with the cousin... or without. 19 isn't too old for an all night sleepover. :-)

If you end up alone... do you have a zoo nearby? They usually don't charge much, and it is easy to spend the day there. No you aren't to big to go into the petting zoo. :-)

If you have enough money for fuel and snacks... birthday road trip to no-place is a great adventure alone or with a cousin. Please be smart about that and don't go anywhere that can get you killed.

That is about all I have for little or no money.

I hope you have an excellent day. Happy early birthday!

Please let me know what you decided when you leave feedback?

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trueadvice3 answered Monday June 28 2010, 1:48 pm:
Hey, I think that the most great thing to do when you don't have money but want to have a relaxing day especially on your B-day, would be to just enjoy time alone. Go for a long walk on your favorite park, enjoy and admire the beauty of nature... if your nearest big park is far away and your home has a roof where you can lay down and look at the stars, go ahead and spend the night looking the the amazing night sky filled with stars and soon your mind will start racing with thoughts about the world/universe... you might want to take your MP3 with you and listen to your favorite music and or think of just what a young person you are becoming now that you just turned 19! take this day to spent it alone or with a close somebody analyze your life at this point in time... make a list of the things you might want to change and or improve on. Plan this day to be as relaxing as possible to you surrounded by nature and it's mystery's look up at the sky in the morning, if you have a camera, take pictures of the blue sky and the cloud formations then at night when you look up at the stars, take pictures of these and have them as a memory of how the sky looked on your 19 B-day! both by day and by night! I bet the sky will look amazing! this will be a reminder that you are an amazing person and you want certain things in your life to take a positive change, like the relationship between you and your parents needs to be worked on for a positive permanent change.
- Certain things might not work out for the better but you will at least know that YOU gave it a shot and nothing else other than your efforts to make things right should matter.
- One important key to being happy throughout life is to remain positive no matter the harsh situations that life brings upon us.
- Live life the positive way and many unopened doors will open just for you.
- Help others, help yourself, spread love around! and you will be rewarded with the most amazing experiences a human being has ever undergone.
- In other news...I wish you an early healthy B-day! enjoy your day thinking of your accomplishments and how far you have come!
Best always,
-trueadvice3

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