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My parents are driving me insane.
I just recentley graduated high school i am 17 years old. When my Senior Year started my parents would constantly remind of getting a job, going to college, doing this and that for college. As my senior year was ending i would be reminded everyday which got annoying. However when we would have these talks somehow my boyfriend would come into the conversation they would tell me how i just worry about him and nothing else. I'm sick and tired of hearing it. One night i came home and we got into another arguement about getting a job-I know I have to it's not easy anyways i got really upset and told them they didnt have to worry about it cause i was going to move out soon and live with my boyfiend they got really pist and took away my phone, computer, and kept me from seeing him. I dont know what to do? What do i tell my parents? I reallllyyy want to move out!
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You may not realise this, but your parents are doing whats in your best interest. You have to get a job to get money. You have to get an education, to be successful by getting a good job.
You shouting "you dont have to worry because im moving out with my boyfriend" further re-enforced what they though - your boyfriend is a distraction to you. Theres nothing wrong with being in a relationship as long as it doesnt affect school etc.
Why do you want to move out? Do you have a job to pay rent? Groceries? Bills? how about a car? TV? insurance? Do you think your ready to be independent when you don't even have a job?
I understand that right now your boyfriend may be 'the one' and you may be in 'love'. But how can you gaurentee this? you cant, and so why do you want to risk it, and do something stupid like moving out on your own, at this crucial stage in your life. This is the first step to becoming in adult. If you don't act like an adult, you cannot be treated like an adult by your parents. If you want to move out with him, because your so madly in love, can you not wait? Is the love not strong enough to withstand whats best for you- ad education, and/or a job to get experience and money. If Love conquers all, then this wont be a problem. Im sure you can wait a few years when you have money, and a good education and then move in with your boyfriend.
I know this may sounds like a lecture from your parents, but it is indeed the truth. I hope you realise and understand this :)
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