What does it mean when a guy says he wants to teach you about life?
Question Posted Sunday June 20 2010, 4:14 pm
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to teach you about life? We are both 16 and i'm not sure what he means. I have been friends with this guy since I was in second grade. He has always been like a brother to me, so I dont think that this has anything to do with sex. We have never dated or done anything. He helps me when I'm in trouble, but i'm not a bad peron who gets into trouble either. I've never had any desires or urges to become sexual with him and he hasnt either, sometimes he tells me I'm like one of the guys.People keep telling me its only about sex thats why I'm sying its not. He keeps our relationship non sexual, fully respects me, never says anything sexual and is always being nice to me,so what did he mean he wanted to teach me about life?
Michele answered Sunday June 20 2010, 10:33 pm: It could mean that he thinks you are going down a wrong path, a path that could bring you pain and and sorrow, and he wants to talk about it with you. You seem to have a mutually respectful relationship, so he may think that you will listen to him.
Or he may want to clue you in to what guys are REALLY like. He may think so much of you that he wants to help you protect yourself against guys who are just out to use you, and the ones who could really care, and how to tell the difference.
Which is very important. If that is what he is trying to do, then you should listen, because only guys know guys best!
He sounds like a good friend and you are lucky to have him.
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