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How long does your penis hurt after a bad HJ?
My girlfriend really wanted to give me a handjob. I thought it sounded great and when we go together this past weekend I let her do it. Now, my girlfriend is a virgin and she has never given a hand job to anybody so this was a new thing for her.
She didn't do it right and I had to get her to stop after awhile. My penis hurts now because she didn't know what she was doing. How long will it hurt? When will the pain go away from the bad hand job? Some places her nails got caught or dug in to my skin. She also squeezed too hard and had some really bad angles going on (which made it really not comfortable since there wasn't a whole lot of lube).
I should have stopped her sooner but she wanted to try so bad. When will this heal up? Should I see a doctor or something?
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It should feel better afer a few days, just leave it alone. If it doesn't, then go to your doctor.
As for your girlfriend, communication is really important. You don't have to hurt your girlfriend's feelings by telling her it was bad but there are ways you can guide her in the right direction.
If she's doing something right, tell her you like it. If you don't, then take her hand and show her what you'd prefer. It's okay to tell her to slow down, speed up or to stop something that feels uncomfortable. In order for sex to be successful, you have to communicate with each other to find out what you both like and dislike.
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Provided you don't engage in any kind of sexual activity including self-stimulation for a while you will be fine and it will heal on its own.
You NEED to tell her that although her intentions were good that she hurt you. If you don't it will only happen again until you correct her and walk her through it.
How else is she to know it hurt you? You need to tell her that it didn't provide anything good. No need regarding seeing a doctor as long as you leave that area of your body to heal naturally.
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