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I texted my ex boyfriend from my friends phone and said "so, seems like you and ___ are really hitting it off (;" and he said "ha yea totally..." They haven't talked face to face, but they have texted uh, three times. he usually answers back right away when she texts him, he laughs in basically all of the texts, I told him he should come to her bonfire and he said "yea, maybe" What should he do? Through just that do you think he's getting to the liking stage? Thanks!
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Ok, let me get this straight. You sent a text message, pretending to be your best bud, to your EXboyfriend. You were curious if he and (you/other girl) are getting along so you sent a basic message asking if he liked (you/other girl). He response positively. You don't understand what this could mean.
Does he like you?
"You and (the-real-you / another girl) are hitting it off, huh?"
"Yeah, totally!"
...is this seriously a question? Of course he likes whoever it is you asked him if he liked. He didn't do an iffy face. He wasn't like, "Yeah...I guess...sorta..." Looks like he was pretty darn clear about it to me. There isn't any "hidden meaning" that I can tell. Heck, there's not even enough words to have a hidden meaning!
Yes, he likes (you / other girl). It doesn't mean he's CRAZY for (you / other girl) but he probably wouldn't mention that to a complete stranger anyway.
Sounds like he's being honest to me.
To make it sound like you're not creepy stalking him you should have your best bud continue texting him in a friendly manner. I hate to break it to you but a lot of this is really childish and he may be able to see through it and realize it was really you asking.
Maybe you should call him, hmm? ;)
If you did ask him if he liked YOU:
If you're expecting him to come out and say, "OMG! I LOVE HER! SHE IS AWESOME!" then you need to realize that this is real life. Of course he isn't going to text something like that, especially to a stranger he rarely ever texts anyway. He isn't telling you he likes you in real life for a multitude of reasons. Maybe because of a bad breakup or afraid of getting hurt. Maybe because he isn't sure how YOU feel and doesn't want to be embarrassed. Boys have feelings too. Maybe because he just likes you and that's as far as his feelings go. It's time to talk to him if you're curious though.
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