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whats up with him?
18f.
i met this new guy, i thought he was amazingly different then any other guy i've ever liked because he has treated me so different. we're not dating yet, but he treats me like a princess everytime we're together. he knows i have a trust problem, especially with guys, and he knows i've been hurt and afraid to fall again and he's promised he would never hurt me or give me a reason to never trust him.
everything was fine, until tonight. i texted him about something, and then he asked what i was doing tonight and i said i was somewhere an hr and a half away and then i didn't know, and he said we should hang out tonight and i said yeah we should :) and he was like ok, text me when you get home. so i text him when i get home, about an hr and a half later, and i say ok i'm home ..and he never texted back..
i'm so confused, i know it sent to him. i don't know if he didn't want to see me (even though he asked ME to hang out first) or what's going on .. i'm just really hurt ..because i never thought this would happen with him.
i'm frustrated, sad, confused all at the same time. if he texts me tomorrow saying something, do i say something about him not texting back? what if he acts like nothing happened? i don't know what to say, if i should say anything at all..
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Well, it is possible he fell asleep, his phone died, something extremely important came up, or he didn't have service. I would ask him about what happened and see what he says. To me it doesn't sound like he was trying to hurt you, but if it is a re-occurring problem I would confront him about how it hurts you when he doesn't respond. Good Luck!
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I would take a breather, Girls, including me (19/f) freak out too easily about stuff. Sometimes phones services dont work right or maybe he fell asleep, or his phone died, or a million other possibilities.
Just wait to see, talk to him and say that you texted him. He may be like "really? I never got it" it's happened to me and its happened to my boyfriend a bunch of times.
There's a million reasons he could have not texted you back. I wouldn't let such a small thing ruin a possible relationship.
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Don't be too hurt by this, it's probably nothing personal. He might have fallen asleep, had other responsibilites he had to take care of, etc. A variety of things could have happened. If he texts you tomorrow, I think the best reply on your part could be something like "Hey :) why didn't you text back last night?" or something...nothing showing that you're sad over it because that might cause an argument if you start making him feel bad about simple things like this. Goodluck, I hope all goes well.
-Jess
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