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Sensitive boyfriend. Stay or go?
I really love my boyfriend, we have been together for 6 months and he has already proposed. Many aspects of his personality are great but...he is soooooooo sensitive. For example if I answer a question too abruptly for his taste, he says he is hurt.(I am rolling my eyes as I type this)And once he is 'hurt' he gets a pinched look on his face. He will say nothing is wrong, I am fine. But unless he ate a lemon behind my back, something is wrong. How sensitive is too sensitive? I honestly try to be calm and careful in everything i say, but I am not Budha.
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Run. Like. Hell.
Proposed after six months? Overly sensitive. This guy is a bundle of issues you haven't yet begun to unravel. This will become less endearing and more frustrating with time. Do not waste the early years of your life trying to sort out some dude who's got delicate snowflake syndrome.
If you end it now, you might be able to retain some respect for him. If you don't, the amount of contempt you'll eventually build would make Buddha sad.
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Far more concerning then him making faces at you, is the fact this dummy decided to ask you to spend the rest of your life with him after six months.
Do you know the average length of a marriage for couples who get engaged before dating for even a year? About 28 months, and something like 80% will be divorced before year 5... Those are lousy odds.
If your boyfriend says he is fine, ignore his silly faces. Act like they don't exist. Believe him when he says he doesn't have a problem until he is willing to talk about the problem. Develop a thicker skin.
If your boyfriend is using pouty faces to get your attention and make you chase him, stop feeding into that childish behaviour and just ignore him. Keep trying to be the best you can, but expect him to come to you honestly and directly when there is a problem. Ignore sulking.
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