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No boy likes me as a girlfriend what should I do?
Guys are nice to me And if I ask them out they say sorry. That is about it. What should I do to make guys like me and not say that I am stupid? I am a 13 year old female. I am the onlyone in my grade that hasn't ever had a boyfriend.
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I doubt you're really the only one in your grade who hasn't had a boyfriend.
You're 13! I know it feels like having a boyfriend is the most important thing in the world right now, but I promise you it's not. You have years and years to deal with the ups and downs of relationships, right now you should be enjoying yourself.
You can't MAKE guys like you, you can only be yourself. A guy not liking you doesn't mean you're inferior, it just means they're not the right one for you and that's fine. Spend time with a mixture of guys and girls and focus on friendships. People will soon see what a great person you are. One of the most unattractive things people can do is mope around because they think no one likes them and act desperate. Be yourself, be friendly and be happy with who you are. I'm sure that at some point something will happen with a guy but right now it's not the end of the world if it doesn't.
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honeyy. im 16 & still havent had a boyfriend.
but instead of asking them out, just ask a group of them, with yur girls of course, & chill out of school or somewhere where yu can be yurself..
& honestly boys yur age arent really worth dating. just give it time & someone will like yu.
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high! I'm 17/ female and honestly I don't think you even need to be worried about some boy liking you because as much as you probly want to rush it it would be BEST if yu didn't because nothing is gunnuh last at thirteen years old the guy can't do anything for you and you can't do any thing for him now if you really think about it what's the purpose of having a boyfriend at this age, showing him off to your friends maybe but that will just lead to them trying to steal him
Or just to prove that you are a pretty girl honestly if you don't believe it yourself ask a friend but don't have a boy misuse you okay!
but of course your probly not gunnuh take my advice unless I say something you wannuh hear lol soooo
if you really want a guy to like you follow these three complicated but worth it steps
• do something to really impress them
like win a talent show or have a pool party.
• tell his friends to hook you guys up
guys will do anything for their buddyz and if the guy doesn't want you then his friends will be like DUDE IF YOU DONT WANT HER ILL TAKE HER! I promise you that will happen
• and lastly you can completely ignore him but still hint that you want his attention
but don't be rude, purposely walk past him w.o looking over at him make it seem like your life is so much more worth living than anyone elses
I really hope you listen to that first part though!
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In many ways you're lucky you haven't had one at your age or younger. Boys are immature at your age and don't know whether they want a girlfriend or to be playing with action figures the next moment.
No doubt your friends have experienced a lot of grief and range of happy/sad emotions because of that. You can bet that none of the relationships really lasted or was meaningful for them.
You aren't missing much yet. You're ahead of most boys maturity wise and intellectually right now. One thing that's dead WRONG about what you're doing is asking them out yourself.
If people see a pattern developing where you try that they'll think you're desperate and or insincere and just want any old guy.
What you need to do is strengthen your social skills which I think may be the biggest issue for people saying no or avoiding you and start caring more about yourself and value yourself and be confident in who you are.
If you're coming across as unconfident or thinking nobody likes me or wants to date me they'll see it in body language and your eyes and back away. Ask your mother, sister, aunts or trusted females about this and for tips in attracting the type of person you want.
You need to know that at 13 not many girls are dating even if it seems that they are and that none are having lasting relationships at this stage. Don't feel left out as your time will come. You can make sure it's with the right person. If you date someone 14-15-years-old you might find someone right for you.
The only other thing that can sink your chances is your personal appearance, dress, manners and hygiene aside from that sooner or later you'll snag the right guy and the wait will be worth it.
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