i was hooking up with this guy the other night and he started fingering me. he was rubbing my clit, but the way he was doing it, it really hurt. i didn't know what to do, bc i didn't wanna be like "umm you're hurting me...", so i just pushed his hand down farther. is that bad? idk what to do if that happens again
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? sunshine1232 answered Thursday June 3 2010, 11:34 pm: Yes it is bad that you his pushed his hand down further seeing as he was hurting you..you need to
be straight forward and honest with him say that when he was fingering you he was hurting you and tell him that you didn't know what to do so you kept it to yourself and didn't say anything..you
didn't want to ruin the moment and say your hurting me if it happens again then speak up and say something make it known to him that your uncomfortable he won' know unless you tell him
ask him if he can be more gently when fingering you
so he doesn't start hurting you again and you can enjoy what he's doing to you better(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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