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Guy best friend.
Is it wrong to have a guy best friend? Everyone says stuff about us. That we love each other and that we will be together sometime. Why can't a guy and a girl be best friends? I'm the girl. He's the boy, of course. We are both fifteen. He tells me about the girls he likes and everything. I tell him pretty much everything too. When I'm down or sad, he'll play the guitar for me to make me feel better. We text all the time. He helps me with my homework. He sticks up for me. I stick up for him. He sometimes plays my instrument and he lets me play his drum sometimes. I go to him with everything. Girls are just catty and start drama. Having a guy best friend eliminates all those problems which is why I love my best friend with all my heart for making my life so much easier. We're just.. best friends. Right? What's so wrong with having an opposite sex best friend? And what do I tell people when they make fun of us again? Thanks!
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First of all tell them it's none of there business and anouther thing I think the same thing. I'm 18 and a female too and I just dont like hanging around girls that much because they are so much drama and drama aint my thing she I just hang with my one and only my husband thats enough for me but it sounds like he may like you but if yall say you and him are best friends then thats that. there aint nouthing wrong with that. so good luck and have fun. =)
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Put simply: people are stupid. I have had this problem for most of my life, I have always had guy best friends, because like you said it helps to avoid all of that stupid drama that girls like to start. People watch way too much tv where there are 2 best friends, 1 boy and 1 girl, and they fall in love, so they automatically start to think that that happens in reality.
There is nothin wrong with having an opposite sex best friend, my best friend is a guy and also my ex-boyfriend so I get it 10 times worse than anyone :) I have just learned to ignore them all, there is really nothing that you can say to make them stop. You can tell them a hundred times that you are JUST friends and they will continue to think that its impossibile. Just go about your business and keep the friends that you can trust and that you care about around, ignore all the other dumb B!tche$ :)
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